Here are 17 comprehensive space and self-clearing tips
to attract love to, or improve, romance
in your home and your life too!
- Declutter Your Space:
Get rid of items that hold negative energy or remind you of past relationships. Clear out clutter to make space for new energy and opportunities. Decluttering items associated with ex-partners can be a cathartic and empowering process. Here are some steps to help you declutter belongings from your home.
1.1. Set Intentions: Before you begin decluttering, set clear intentions for the process. Decide what you want to keep, what you want to discard, and how you want to feel once the decluttering is complete. Remind yourself that letting go of items from past relationships can help you move forward and create space for new experiences not only in your space but in your heart too.
1.2. Start Small: If the thought of decluttering feels overwhelming, start with small, manageable areas such as a single drawer or shelf. Breaking the process into smaller tasks can make it feel more achievable and less daunting. You can also decide to let go of a small memory in your heart that isn’t inducive to attracting a new person into your life.
1.3. Sort Items: Go through your belongings and sort them into categories such as items you want to keep, items you want to donate or sell, and items you want to discard. As you go through each item, ask yourself if it brings you joy or if it holds negative emotions associated with your ex-partner.
1.4. Be Honest with Yourself: Be honest with yourself about why you’re holding onto certain items or thoughts and memories. Are you keeping them out of nostalgia, guilt, or a sense of obligation? Recognize that you don’t need to hold onto physical or emotional reminders of past relationships to cherish the memories or lessons learned.
1.5. Consider the Future: Consider how keeping or discarding items or memories from past relationships may impact your future. Will holding onto them hinder your ability to move forward and create new connections? Will letting go of them create space for personal growth and new opportunities?
1.6. Take Your Time: Decluttering items from past relationships can be an emotional process, so give yourself permission to take your time and process your feelings as you go. If you find yourself getting overwhelmed, take breaks and practice self-care.
1.7. Find Closure: As you declutter, use the process as an opportunity to find closure and let go of lingering attachments even if only emotional attachments to your ex-partner. Acknowledge the role these items or memories played in your past and thank them for the lessons they taught you before releasing them with profound gratitude.
1.8. Create a Ritual: Consider creating a ritual to mark the end of the decluttering process and symbolize your commitment to moving forward. This could involve lighting a candle, writing down your intentions, or saying a prayer or affirmation that you’re now ready for a complete new relationship.
1.9. Celebrate Your Progress: Once you’ve completed the decluttering process, take a moment to acknowledge and celebrate your progress. Congratulate yourself for having the courage to let go of items and memories from past relationships and embrace the opportunity for growth, renewal, and new beginnings.
By following these steps, you can declutter items and memories from past relationships in a mindful and intentional way, allowing you to create space for new beginnings and positive experiences for your future life:
2 Clearing spirits and energies of separation, co-dependency or divorce from your home:
Clearing spirits from your home or yourself and clearing the energies associated with separation, co-dependency, or divorce from previous tenants or owners of a flat or house can help create a fresh and harmonious environment for the current occupants and they can be approached from various perspectives, including spiritual, energetic, and psychological perspectives. Here are some methods you can consider to clear these energies:
2.1. Smudging: Burning sage, Palo Santo, or other cleansing herbs can help clear negative energy and spirits from your home. Start at the entrance of the home and move clockwise around each room, focusing on corners, closets, and areas where the energy may feel stagnant. Open windows and doors while smudging to allow the energy to flow out.
2.2. Sea Salt Cleansing: Sprinkle sea salt around the perimeter of your home or specific rooms to create a protective barrier against negative energy and spirits. Allow the salt to sit for a period of time before sweeping or vacuuming it away.
- 2.3. Sound Healing: Use sound healing tools such as singing bowls, bells, or chimes to cleanse and purify the energy of your home. Sound vibrations can help disperse stagnant energy and spirits. Focus on areas where there may be lingering energies of separation or conflict.
- 2.4. Prayer or Invocation: Invoke the assistance of your spiritual guides, or deities through prayer or invocation to get rid of limiting beliefs that you might have. Ask for protection and guidance in clearing any unwanted energies or spirits from your home. Please read further to find out more about the professional help that Heloisa offers for this.
2.5. Visualisations: Visualise a bright light surrounding and permeating every corner of your home, pushing out any negative energy, spirits or the energies of separation or divorce. Envision the space being filled with love, light, and positivity.
2.6. Professional Help: If you don’t feel sure whether there are any spirits or negative energies, feel overwhelmed or unable to clear the energy yourself, consider seeking the assistance of a professional energy healer, shaman, or spiritual practitioner who specialises in space clearing.
Note that Heloisa is certified to do this kind of work too and offers evaluations free of charge to anyone in need.
3. Clearing Spirits from Yourself:
Grounding and Centring: Practice techniques to reconnect with your body and anchor yourself in the present moment. This can help dispel any unwanted energies or spirits that may be affecting you. If you’re not sure whether you have energies around you or your house, you can ask for an evaluation free of charge from Heloisa.
3.1. Protection Shields: Visualise yourself surrounded by a protective shield of light or energy, which acts as a barrier against negative influences. Reaffirm your intention to only allow positive energies to come into your home and also on yourself.
3.2. Energy Clearing Practices: Practise energy clearing techniques such as meditation, Reiki, or Qi Gong to cleanse your energetic field and release any attachments or influences from unwanted spirits.
3.3. Space Blessing Rituals: Perform a space blessing ritual to infuse the home with positive energy and intentions. This could involve lighting candles, burning incense, or placing crystals in strategic locations throughout the home.
3.4. Declutter and Purify: Remove clutter and unnecessary items from the home to create space for new energy to flow. Cleanse surfaces and objects with natural cleaning products or energetic sprays infused with essential oils.
3.5. Set Intentions for Healing: Set clear intentions for healing and transformation in the space. Affirm that the home is now a sanctuary of peace, harmony, and wholeness for all who inhabit it.
- 3.6. Prayer or Invocation: Invoke the assistance of your spiritual guides, or deities through prayer or invocation. Ask for protection and guidance in clearing any unwanted energies from the space or beliefs of yourself and inviting in healing and harmony.
- 3.7. Self-Care Practices: Engage in self-care practices such as spending time in nature, journaling, or engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being can help strengthen your resilience and protect you from negative influences.
- 3.8. Professional Assistance: If you’re experiencing persistent spiritual disturbances or feel overwhelmed by negative energies, or unable to clear the energies yourself, consider seeking the help of a professional energy healer, or spiritual counsellor who can offer support and assistance in navigating spiritual challenges. Heloisa is certified in this service and offers evaluation of your home free of charge. You can ask Heloisa for a n evaluation if you’re not sure if you have an influence of a spirit in your home or yourself.
It’s important to approach spirit clearing with respect, intention, and mindfulness. Trust your intuition and choose the methods that resonate most deeply with you and your beliefs. If you feel uncertain or unsafe, don’t engage in it and instead, ask a professional like Heloisa for an evaluation and to remove them, if there should be anything unsafe.
By using these methods to clear the energies associated with spirits, separation, co-dependency, or divorce, you can create a supportive and nurturing environment for yourself and your loved ones in your home. Trust in the process and allow the energy of healing and transformation to flow through the space.
4. Use Aromatherapy:
Incorporate scents like rose, jasmine, or lavender into your home through candles, essential oils, or fresh flowers. These scents can evoke feelings of love and relaxation.
5. Create a Romantic Atmosphere: Set the mood in your home by dimming the lights, playing soft music, and lighting candles. Create cozy spaces where you and your partner can spend quality time together.
6. Add Touches of Red and Pink: Red and pink are colours associated with love and passion. Incorporate these colours into your decor through throw pillows, artwork, or decorative accents.
7. Cleanse with Sage or Palo Santo: Use sage or Palo Santo to cleanse your home of any negative energy. Start at the entrance and move clockwise through each room, focusing on areas where energy feels stagnant.
8. Place Crystals Around Your Home: Crystals like rose quartz and amethyst are believed to attract love and promote harmony. Place them strategically throughout your home to enhance the energy of love and romance.
Apart from amethyst, there are several other crystals believed to attract love and improve romance. Here are a few examples:
8.1. Rose Quartz: Rose quartz is perhaps the most well-known crystal for love and romance. It is often called the “love stone” and is associated with unconditional love,
8.2. Rodochrosite: Rhodochrosite is a beautiful pink crystal that is said to attract soulmates and deepen existing relationships. It is believed to open the heart chakra, promoting self-love and emotional healing.
8.3. Emerald: Emerald is a gemstone associated with the heart chakra and is said to enhance unconditional love and loyalty in relationships. It is believed to promote harmony, unity, and balance in partnerships.
8.4. Moonstone: Moonstone is a crystal associated with intuition and feminine energy. It is said to enhance emotional understanding, promote fertility, and strengthen the bond between partners.
8.5. Garnet: Garnet is a deep red crystal associated with passion, desire, and commitment. It is believed to stimulate the libido and enhance romantic relationships by promoting trust and mutual understanding.
8.6. Clear Quartz: Clear quartz is a versatile crystal known for its amplifying properties. It can be programmed with intentions related to love and romance, making it a powerful tool for attracting positive energy into relationships.
8.7. Citrine: Citrine is a vibrant yellow crystal associated with joy, abundance, and positivity. It is believed to attract love and happiness into one’s life while dispelling negative energy and promoting emotional clarity.
8.8. Ruby: Ruby is a deep red gemstone associated with passion, vitality, and romance. It is believed to ignite passion and desire within relationships while promoting deep emotional connections.
These are a few examples of crystals that can be used to attract love and improve romance in your home. Experiment with different crystals to find the ones that best resonate with you and your intentions for love and relationships.
9. Cutting Cords from past experiences, and past-lives
Cutting cords, in a spiritual sense, refers to releasing energetic attachments or connections to people, situations, or emotions that no longer serve our highest good. Here are some steps you can take to cut cords that you feel are holding you back in your quest for love and romance:
9.1. Identify the Cords: Reflect on your past relationships and current emotional state to identify any lingering emotional attachment, energetic ties that you feel are preventing you from moving forward, even from past-life memories. These could be attachments to ex-partners, past hurts, or negative beliefs about love and relationships as you know that they make you attract exactly what s fear most.
Many of my clients didn’t know they still had attachments to a certain situation or even person and needed a session of Inner Child Healing to resolve the issue. Once they knew about it, they didn’t know how to heal it on their own and didn’t want to go through all the hurt that they’d have attracted into their lives by not healing those emotions before attracting the next partner into their lives. If you don’t know whether or not you do have attachments to your past, you can also ask for a psychic card reading from Heloisa, who is perfectly able to tell you whether you have anything unresolved from your past, or even a past-life unresolved issue to be resolved.
9.2. Set Your Intention: Before performing any cord-cutting ritual, it’s important to set a clear intention for what you want to release and invite into your life. Visualise yourself letting go of old attachments as in millions of particles leaving your body and making space for new, healthy relationships to enter your life.
9.3. Choose Your Method: There are various methods you can use to cut cords, such as visualisation, meditation, ritual or professional help as Reiki or also past-life regression. Choose a method that best resonates with you and feels comfortable.
10. Attracting negative or the wrong partners into your life:
If you find yourself consistently attracted to the wrong partners or who bring negativity into your life, it’s important to take steps to address this pattern. Here are some strategies to work on attracting more positive partners:
10.1. Self-Reflection: Take some time to reflect on your past relationships and identify any recurring patterns or traits in your partners that have brought negativity into your life. Consider the role you play in these dynamics and explore any underlying beliefs or insecurities that may be attracting these types of partners. You can also reflect on your relationships with your parents as you were a child as we all carry conditionings from our past that we don’t even know is still influencing our lives.
Some of my clients still carried animosities from their childhood about their parents who did or said things to them as children that conditioned them to be a certain person that they don’t want to be at all and they needed to heal that part of them.
Also, some of them did judge their parents for decisions they made then, not knowing that this would make them go through an absolute same pattern when adults. These are also things that need to be healed so that you don’t attract the same patterns when adults.
10.2. Clarify Your Values and Boundaries: Clarify your values and what you’re looking for in a partner. Establish clear boundaries for what you will and will not tolerate in a relationship. By knowing your worth and setting healthy boundaries conform your values and confidence, you can attract partners who align with your values and treat you with respect.
If you lack something as confidence or self-love, or are still thinking of someone you knew from your past, its’ paramount that you heal this before you attract somebody into your life, and just that you know, it doesn’t take long to heal this at all with Reiki activations and the Inner Child Healing therapy. Remember that they will have the same issue as you have with somebody from their past if you have one too.
10.3. Work on Self-Love and Self-Worth: Cultivate self-love and self-worth by practising self-care, positive, confident affirmations, and activities that make you feel good about yourself. When you love and value yourself, you’re less likely to attract and even less settle for partners who bring negativity into your life.
11. Creating a Love Altar
Creating a love altar can be a beautiful way to manifest love and strengthen romantic connections in your life. Here’s how you can create your own love altar:
11.1.Select a Sacred Space: Choose a dedicated space in your home where you can set up your love altar. This could be a corner of your bedroom, a shelf, or a small table.
11.2. Choose Meaningful Items: Select items that hold personal significance and symbolize love, romance, and partnership to you. Some ideas include:
11.3. Crystals: Choose crystals associated with love and relationships, such as rose quartz, amethyst, or garnet.
11.4. Candles: Use candles in romantic colours like red, pink, or white to represent love and passion.
11.5. Display Symbols of Love: Decorate you’re altar and your home with symbols of love such as hearts, lovebirds, cupid figurines or romantic quotes. These reminders can help cultivate a loving atmosphere in your space.
11.6. Flowers: Fresh flowers or dried petals can add a touch of romance and beauty to your altar.
11.7. Photographs: Display photographs of you and your partner or images that represent your ideal relationship.
11.8. Written Affirmations: Write down affirmations or love intentions on pieces of paper and place them on your altar.
9.4. Visualisation: Sit in a quiet space and close your eyes. Visualise yourself surrounded by a bright, protective light. Envision the cords connecting you to past relationships or negative emotions. Use scissors or a symbolic tool to sever these cords one by one, releasing them with love, compassion and also with gratitude for all that they meant to you in the past.
9.5. Meditation: Practise a cord-cutting meditation where you focus on releasing attachments and inviting in positive energy. You can find guided meditations specifically designed for cord cutting online or create your own meditation ritual. Or ask me to write an article about that in the future in the comments below.
9.6. Ritual: Perform a ritual using symbolic objects such as candles, crystals, or written intentions. Light a candle to represent the release of old energy and burn a piece of paper with written affirmations of what you’re letting go of. You can also use crystals associated with cutting cords, such as obsidian or black tourmaline, to aid in the process.
9.7. Practice Self-Care: After cutting cords, it’s important to practice self-care and nurture yourself emotionally. Spend time doing activities that bring you joy and fulfilment and surround yourself with supportive friends and loved ones.
Remember that cutting cords is a personal process, and it may take time to fully release old attachments and patterns. Be patient with yourself and trust that by letting go of what no longer serves you, you create space for new love and positive relationships to enter your life.
10.4. Focus on Positive Traits: Shift your focus towards attracting partners who possess positive traits and qualities that align with your positive values and traits. Look for partners who are supportive, kind, and emotionally healthy, just as yourself are too. But instead of just believing that they are, have a real look at them in a critical way, at least at the beginning before the relationship if you have been in a wrong relationship before, and be prepared to part ways if they are not what you expected they were if you don’t want to be let down again, and this time you’d know it which means that you’d let yourself down, which is worse than being let down by somebody else.
10.5. Expand Your Social Circle: Expand your social circle and engage in activities that align with your interests and values. Surround yourself with positive, like-minded individuals who uplift and inspire you. You may meet potential partners through mutual friends, social events, or shared hobbies.
10.6. Communicate Effectively: Practice open and honest communication with potential partners early on in the relationship. Be clear about your expectations, boundaries, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. Healthy communication is key to establishing mutual respect and understanding.
10.7. Trust Your Intuition: Pay attention to your intuition and gut feelings when getting to know someone new. If something feels off or doesn’t align with your values, trust your instincts and don’t ignore red flags.
10.8. Seek Professional Support: If you find it challenging to break patterns of attracting negative partners on your own, consider seeking support from a therapist or counsellor. A professional can help you explore underlying issues, build self-awareness, and develop healthier relationship patterns. Remember that Heloisa has helped many people already to resolve their relationships problems.
By taking proactive steps to work on yourself and shift your mindset, you can attract more positive and fulfilling relationships into your life. Remember that change takes time and patience, so be gentle with yourself as you navigate this journey.
11.9. Personal Mementos: Include personal mementos that hold sentimental value and remind you of cherished moments in your present relationship.
11.10. Arrange Your Altar: Arrange the items on your altar in a way that feels aesthetically pleasing and meaningful to you. You can experiment with different layouts until you find one that resonates with your intentions.
11.11. Set Your Intentions: Take a moment to set your intentions for your love altar. Visualise the love and connection you want to attract into your life and infuse your altar with these intentions.
11.12. Maintain Your Altar: Regularly tend to your love altar by cleaning and rearranging the items as needed. You can also refresh the energy of your altar by lighting candles, smudging with sage, or meditating in front of it.
11.13. Use Your Altar for Reflection and Meditation: Spend time in front of your love altar each day to reflect on your intentions, visualise your desired outcomes, and cultivate gratitude for the love in your life. You can also use your altar as a space for meditation or quiet contemplation.
By creating a love altar and infusing it with your intentions, you can cultivate a sacred space that supports you in manifesting love and deepening your romantic connections.
12. Practise Gratitude:
Practising gratitude is a powerful way to cultivate a positive mindset, increase happiness, improve overall well-being and also to manifest all of your wishes! Here’s how you can incorporate gratitude into your daily life:
- 12.1. Start a Gratitude Journal: Set aside time each day to write down things you’re grateful for. This could be done in the morning as a way to set a positive tone for the day, or in the evening as a reflection before bedtime. Write down at least three things you’re thankful for, no matter how big or small. This could be anything from the people in your life to the experiences you’ve had or even the simple pleasures like a warm cup of tea.
- 12.2. Express Gratitude to Others: Take the time to express gratitude to the people in your life. This could be through simple acts of kindness, a heartfelt thank-you note, or verbal expressions of appreciation. Letting others know you’re grateful for them not only strengthens your relationships but also reinforces your own sense of gratitude.
- 12.3. Practise Mindfulness: Throughout the day, pause and take moments to notice and appreciate the present moment. Pay attention to your surroundings, your senses, and the people you interact with. Take time to savour positive experiences and acknowledge the things you’re grateful for at that moment.
12.4. Reflect on Challenges: Even during difficult times, there may still be things to be grateful for. Reflect on the lessons learned or the ways in which challenges have helped you grow and become stronger. Finding gratitude in adversity can foster resilience and a positive outlook.
12.5. Create Rituals: Incorporate gratitude into your daily rituals or routines. For example, you could start or end each meal with a moment of gratitude or make it a habit to express thanks before going to bed each night. By incorporating gratitude into your daily habits, it becomes a natural part of your life.
12.6. Focus on the Positive: Train your mind to focus on the positive aspects of your life rather than dwelling on what’s lacking or negative. Practise reframing negative thoughts into more positive and grateful ones. For example, instead of thinking about what you don’t have, focus on what you do have and express gratitude for those things as this is what will help you attract more of it into your life.
12.7. Use Visual Reminders: Place visual reminders of gratitude around your home or workspace. This could be a gratitude jar where you write down things you’re grateful for and add them to the jar, or a vision board with images and quotes that inspire gratitude.
12.8. Practice Gratitude Meditation: Set aside time for a gratitude meditation where you focus on feelings of gratitude and appreciation. You can visualise things you’re grateful for, cultivate feelings of thankfulness in your heart, and send out positive intentions of gratitude to the universe.
Remember that practising gratitude is a skill that takes time and consistency to develop. By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can cultivate a greater sense of gratitude and appreciation for the blessings in your life.
13. Visualisation
Visualisation is a powerful tool for manifesting the kind of relationship you desire. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to visualise the relationship you want to have:
- 13.1. Set the Scene: Find a quiet and comfortable space where you won’t be disturbed. Sit or lie down in a relaxed position and close your eyes.
- 13.2. Relax Your Mind and Body: Take a few deep breaths to relax your mind and body. Release any tension or stress you may be holding onto.
- 13.4. Visualise Your Ideal Partner: Begin by visualising your ideal partner. Imagine them standing before you, radiating love, kindness, and all the qualities you desire in a partner. Picture their appearance, their energy, and how they make you feel.
- 13.5. Imagine Your Interactions: Visualise yourself interacting with your ideal partner in various scenarios. Imagine having deep conversations, sharing laughter, and enjoying each other’s company. Picture yourselves engaging in activities you both love and supporting each other through both joyful and challenging times.
- 13.6. Feel the Love: Allow yourself to feel the love and connection between you and your ideal partner. Focus on the emotions of love, gratitude, and fulfilment that arise as you visualise this relationship.
14. Paintings and Pictures of Couples: Incorporating pictures and paintings of couples into your home can create a warm and inviting atmosphere while also symbolizing love, connection, and partnership. Here are some ideas on how to incorporate couple themed artwork into your home decor:
14.1. Gallery Wall: Create a gallery wall in your living room or bedroom featuring a collection of pictures and paintings depicting couples. Mix and match different styles, sizes, and frames to create visual interest. You can include photos of yourselves as a couple, vintage illustrations, romantic landscapes, or famous paintings of couples.
14.2. Canvas Prints: Choose canvas prints of romantic artwork or photographs of couples to hang as focal points in your home. Opt for large scale prints to make a bold statement in your living room or above your bed in the bedroom. Look for images that resonate with your personal style and relationship aesthetic.
14.3. Personalized Artwork: Commission a custom portrait or painting of you and your partner to display in your home. This could be a realistic portrait, a whimsical illustration, or a stylized painting that captures your unique personalities and love story. Personalized artwork adds a special touch to your home decor and serves as a cherished keepsake.
14.4. Vintage Romance: Incorporate vintage photographs or paintings of couples from different eras into your home decor. Look for black and white photographs of couples in romantic poses, vintage postcards featuring lovers, or retro-style paintings of couples dancing or embracing. Vintage artwork adds charm and nostalgia to your home while celebrating the timeless theme of love.
- 13.7. Visualise Your Future Together: Project your visualisation into the future and imagine the life you and your partner are creating together. Picture yourselves achieving your goals, building a life filled with love, joy, and mutual support.
- 13.8. Express Gratitude: Take a moment to express gratitude for the relationship you’ve visualised. Feel grateful as if it has already manifested in your life, sending out positive energy and intentions into the universe.
- 13.9. Release and Trust: Release your visualisation with a sense of trust and faith that the universe is working to bring your desires into reality. Trust that your intentions have been heard and that the relationship you desire is on its way to you.
- 13.10.Repeat Regularly: Make visualisation a regular practice by incorporating it into your daily or weekly routine. The more you visualise your ideal relationship, the more you align your energy with attracting it into your life.
Remember that visualisation is most effective when combined with inspired action and an open heart. Stay open to opportunities that come your way and trust in the process of manifestation.
14.5. Themed Artwork: Choose artwork that reflects a specific theme or style of couple hood that resonates with you and your partner. This could include images of couples travelling, enjoying outdoor adventures, cooking together, or simply spending quality time at home. Select artwork that inspires you and reinforces the values and activities you enjoy as a couple.
14.6. DIY Projects: Get creative and make your own couple-themed artwork to display in your home. Create a collage of photos of you and your partner, paint a romantic scene on canvas, or craft a piece of mixed media artwork incorporating meaningful symbols and quotes. DIY projects add a personal touch to your home decor and allow you to express your creativity as a couple.
Whether you choose photographs, paintings, or personalized artwork, incorporating images of couples into your home decor can infuse your space with love, warmth, and a sense of connection. Choose artwork that resonates with you and your partner and enjoy the romantic ambiance it creates in your home.
15. Release your own karmic relationships from your past
Karmic relationships are those that are believed to be driven by past-life connections and unresolved issues from previous incarnations. These relationships often involve intense emotions, challenges, and lessons that are meant to facilitate growth and healing for those involved. Here are some key characteristics and aspects of karmic relationships:
15.1. Strong Emotional Bond: Karmic relationships often involve a strong emotional connection that feels familiar and intense, even if the individuals have only known each other for a short time.
15.2. Patterns and Repetition: Individuals may find themselves repeating certain patterns or dynamics in their karmic relationships, which may stem from unresolved issues or traumas from past lives. If something like this is happening to you, you can ask Heloisa either for a psychic reading to certify yourself of the issue at hand, why, etc, or for a Reiki session where she will see the past life and tell you all about it that is relevant to you in this life, or for a past-life regression, where you see it all yourself and can resolve it there and then as after that you won’t attract them into your life anymore.
15.3. Lessons and Growth: Karmic relationships are opportunities for personal growth and spiritual evolution. They often present challenges and obstacles that force individuals to confront their own fears, insecurities, and limitations. It’s quite hard to have a karmic love, as it’s very hard to leave the person you are with.
15.4. Healing and Resolution: The primary purpose of karmic relationships is to facilitate healing and resolution of past-life wounds and karma. By facing and working through these issues, individuals can release old patterns and achieve greater levels of self-awareness and empowerment.
15.5. Intensity and Turbulence: Karmic relationships may be characterised by intense highs and lows, as well as periods of turbulence and conflict. These fluctuations are often a reflection of the inner work that needs to be done by both parties.
15.6. Soul Contracts: Some spiritual traditions believe that souls enter into agreements or contracts before incarnating to meet and work through specific lessons or challenges together. Karmic relationships are seen as part of these soul contracts.
15.7. Release and Closure: Once the lessons associated with a karmic relationship have been learned and the necessary healing has taken place, the relationship may come to an end or evolve into a different form. This closure allows individuals to move forward on their spiritual path with greater clarity and understanding. If you heal yourself previous to meeting the person though, then you won’t be in a relationship with the person anymore as the pattern has been already resolved and you will attract another person according to your new insights and changes spiritually speaking. This means that you will be jumping a life experience into the next one.
15.8. Compassion and Forgiveness: Karmic relationships often require a great deal of compassion and forgiveness towards oneself and others. By practising forgiveness, individuals can release resentments and attachments, allowing for greater freedom and growth.
It’s important to approach karmic relationships with self-awareness, compassion, and a willingness to learn and grow. By recognizing the lessons and opportunities for healing that these relationships offer, individuals can transform challenges into opportunities for spiritual evolution and personal development.
Navigating karmic relationships can be a profound journey of self-discovery and healing, as these connections often carry the weight of unresolved issues and patterns from past lives.
Past life regression therapy offers a powerful tool for exploring the depths of our souls and uncovering the roots of these karmic dynamics. By accessing memories and experiences from past incarnations, individuals can gain insight into the underlying causes of their present-day relationships and work towards healing and resolution. In the next text, we’ll explore how past-life regression and Life Between Lives Regression can be used as transformative tools for clearing karmic relationships and fostering growth and healing in our lives.
16. Hypnotic Past-life and Life Between Lives regression therapies:
These are spiritual techniques used to access memories and experiences from past-lives, with the aim of gaining insight, healing unresolved issues, and releasing karmic patterns that may be affecting present-day relationships, including karmic relationships. The difference between them is that by the Life Between Lives regression therapy, you need at least two hours to be able to see one or two past-lives and then go into your family cluster and also to your mentors who allowed you to come to the earth now, with the intention of asking them questions about your life here now. This is the most spiritual and remarkable of all regressions. Here’s how Past-Life and Life Between Lives regression therapies can be used for clearing karmic relationships:
16.1. Find a Qualified Practitioner: Seek out a qualified past life
regression therapist or practitioner who is experienced in guiding individuals
through regression sessions. Look for someone with training, certification, and
positive reviews or recommendations. Heloisa is a certified hypno-psychotherapist
who has a lot of experience in doing past-life and Life Between Lives
regression therapies with people who need, or want to do them.
16.2. Set Intentions: Before the regression session, set
clear intentions for what you hope to achieve. Focus on healing and releasing
any unresolved issues or patterns related to karmic relationships that are
affecting your present life.
16.3. Prepare for the Session: Prepare yourself mentally and
emotionally for the regression session. Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing,
meditation, or gentle movement can help you feel more grounded and open to the
experience.
16.4. Regression Session: During the regression session, the practitioner will guide you into a relaxed, hypnotic state where you can access memories and experiences from past lives and other times too. They will ask open-ended questions to help you explore significant events, relationships, and emotions that may be relevant to your current life or karmic relationships.
17.5. Explore Karmic Patterns: Use the regression session to explore any recurring patterns, themes, or dynamics that arise in your past life experiences. Pay attention to relationships, emotions, and life circumstances that feel familiar or resonate with your present-day experiences.
16.6. Healing and Release: Work with the practitioner to identify and release any unresolved emotions, traumas, or attachments related to past-life karmic relationships or with any other issues from your past. Use visualization, affirmations, and energetic techniques to release old patterns and promote healing and forgiveness also after the session.
16.7. Integrate Insights: After the regression session, take time to reflect on the insights and experiences you gained. Journaling, meditation, or creative expression can help you integrate and process the information in a meaningful way.
16.8. Follow-Up and Support: Follow up with the practitioner for any additional sessions or support as needed. Be gentle with yourself as you continue to process and integrate the healing from the regression session.
It’s important to approach past life regression as well as the Life Between Lives Regression therapies with an open mind and a willingness to explore your experiences with curiosity and compassion. Remember that the insights and healing you gain from both regression therapies can have a profound impact on your present life and relationships, helping you to release old patterns and create more fulfilling and harmonious connections.
In conclusion, both the past life and the Life Between Lives regression therapies offer a profound opportunity for individuals to delve into the depths of their souls, uncovering the roots of all of your issues here at the moment, and also the roots of karmic relationships and working towards healing and resolution. By accessing memories and experiences from past lives, as well as life between lives experiences, individuals can gain valuable insights into the underlying dynamics of their present-day lives, relationships and other issues as well and release old patterns that no longer serve them. Through compassion, forgiveness, and self-awareness, individuals can transform their lives and karmic relationships into opportunities for growth, healing, and spiritual evolution. If you should have a curiosity about Life Between Lives Regression therapy, then just ask, and I will be very happy to answer all of your questions.
17. Embrace your masculine and feminine energies
Embracing and balancing your divine feminine and masculine energies is an empowering journey of self-discovery and integration. Here are some ways to cultivate and honour these energies within yourself:
17.1. Understand Divine Feminine and Masculine Energies: The divine feminine represents qualities such as intuition, nurturing, creativity, compassion, and receptivity, while the divine masculine represents qualities such as strength, action, logic, assertiveness, and protection. Both energies are present within everyone, regardless of gender.
17.2. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on how you embody both feminine and masculine energies in your life. Notice patterns of behaviour, thought processes, and emotional responses that align with each energy archetype.
17.3. Cultivate Self-Awareness: Develop greater self-awareness by observing how you express your feminine and masculine energies in different situations. Notice any imbalances or areas where one energy may be dominant over the other.
17.4. Practise Acceptance and Integration: Embrace all aspects of yourself, including both your feminine and masculine qualities. Recognize that both energies are valuable and necessary for wholeness and balance.
17.5. Explore Creative Expression: Engage in creative activities that allow you to tap into your divine feminine energy, such as art, dance, writing, or gardening. Allow yourself to express your emotions and intuition freely through creative expression.
17.6. Set Boundaries and Take Action: Practise assertiveness and boundary-setting as a way of embodying your divine masculine energy. Take decisive action towards your goals, and assert your needs and boundaries with confidence and clarity.
17.7. Connect with Nature: Spend time in nature to connect with the earth’s natural rhythms and cycles, which reflect the balance of feminine and masculine energies. Allow yourself to receive the nurturing and healing energy of nature while also appreciating its strength and resilience.
17.8. Nurture Yourself: Practice self-care and self-love as a way of honouring your divine feminine energy. Prioritise activities that nourish your body, mind, and soul, such as meditation, yoga, baths, or spending time with loved ones.
17.9. Embrace Sensuality: Embrace your sensuality and sexuality as aspects of your divine feminine energy. Connect with your body through practices such as mindfulness, movement, and self-pleasure, honouring your body as a sacred vessel of divine energy.
17.10. Balance Yin and Yang: Seek to achieve balance between your feminine and masculine energies, recognizing that both are essential for harmony and wholeness. Allow yourself to flow between receptivity and action, intuition and logic, surrender and assertiveness as needed in different areas of your life.
17.11. Seek Guidance and Support: Consider seeking guidance from spiritual teachers, mentors, or therapists who can offer support and guidance on your journey of integrating your divine feminine and masculine energies.